When You're Stuck on What to Say During Tournament Conversations

This year, my persuasive is about 'the impact you can have through a conversation.' In it, I encourage people to introduce themselves to people they've never met before, because you never know the kind of impact you can have on someone through a simple conversation. Sometimes it's really hard to figure out what to say after 'hello, my name is -insert your name here-", but there are a few good conversation starters that are perfect tournaments.

"I Like Your Suit"

This comment, when said to a girl, will often result in a shpeel (shpeal? shpele?) about how many hours she spent looking in thrift stores looking for a cute suit, only to discover that her older sister had some perfectly adorable ones hidden in the depths of her closet. Or she'll just say thanks, and probably compliment something you're wearing.

"What Case Are You Running?"

Not only is this a good conversation starter, it's also a great way to learn how to destroy them when you hit them about your new friend's opinion on the resolution. ;)

"Where Did You Get Those Shoes?"

"Oh, you mean these little flats that look so cute and innocent but are actually the most horrendous things to walk the planet?" "Yes, those." "Target."

"How Many Siblings do You Have?"

Not 'do you have siblings?' How many. We're homeschoolers- it's a given that we have siblings. There's no telling how many siblings one has, when in the homeschool world. But if someone answers 'none,' you have every right to gasp in horror and ask why.

"What Club Are You From?"

This year the answer to this question will be more varied than ever. Maybe one day I'll figure out what all the Tyler club names are. But probably not.

"How Long Have You Been Doing Speech and Debate?"

"This is my second year, but I've been around S&D for seven years." "Okay... wow..." "And I did juniors for a year. I like, won first place, but then I got last place and gave up on speech for four years. Then I wrote a speech about it..."

"What Tournaments Are You Going to?"

Be sure to remember their answer to this, so that at the end of the tournament you can say 'see you at -insert clever tournament name here-!'

"What Speech Events Are You Doing?"

This question will inevitably lead to the following questions:

1. What is your persuasive/OO/expos on?
2. What is your DI/Duo/HI/OI/Storytelling?
3. Do you prefer abstracts or quotes for impromptu?
4. Isn't extemp the event boring people do?
5. Why aren't you doing any interps?
6. Just debate? That's lame. What's your case?
7. Do you have something against impromptu?

"Vote Affirmative"

Okay, that's a really horrible conversation starter. But it's a good affirmative rebuttal ender. And blog post ender. So... Vote affirmative. And if you have any more tournament conversation starters, tell me in the comments. :)